THE OTHER MAN

Its interesting how every type of  relationship  out there is dependent on Trust and Love. Mainly on trust, because trust is what usually maintains relationships without trust the relationship cannot survive well you might ask what about flings? For a fling to be a successful one there should be a level of trust in place. It might not be from both partners but at least one of them must trust the other.

It was in July when i found out that my girlfriend was cheating on me with another man a well to do man, a married man an executive at one of the best tech companies in Lusaka, at first I only noticed the strangeness in her behaviour, she just started acting awkward out of no where.

You see my girlfriend was what is called a clingy girlfriend whenever an hour passes without calling her or texting her she would complain, that maybe i started seeing some one else.

She would always wanted me to be by her side, when I knock off from work i was supposed call her and tell her about my day. We would talk for hours and whenever we had a chance to get intimate i could see how she enjoyed every touch on her body how much she enjoyed it when i kissed her especially when kissed her neck sometimes she would even tremble with pleasure i could see how much she loved every stroke when we were in the moment. She loved every moment of it and it was so satisfying to know that i satisfied her sexual hunger.

But this time things were slowly changing, she stopped calling me every now and then and when I asked her why? All she could say is that "you know what my love? Change is inevitable everything changes who am i not to change?" well do you remember the promises we made to each other concerning not changing on each other? Well yes that was young love we weren't in real world i urge you to to join me in the real world she replied.

I loved the you then you just seem strange to my liking. Are you saying that you don't love me anymore hun? She asked. No of course not i love you that's why am concerned with your change of character.

Are you seeing someone else? This sparked up an argument she claimed that i did not trust her.

So to end the argument i said that anyway babe forgive me for asking you.

You see my girlfriend had always complained about the me being inexpressible i am someone who found it hard to call girlfriend pet names or sweet names like baby, my love, my boo it just felt awkward but that doesn't mean that I didn't love her i loved her with all my heart.

So when I started seeing the charge in her character I asked myself questions like is it because I am inexpressible with her is it because am a broke and unemployed man? Well no one could answer these questions apart from her.

To be Continued........